Sarah Forshaw (@Forshawsarah) and Miss Amy May  (@miss_amy_may) are southern belle and southern brit pinups, respectively, who found one another on Instagram part way through their pinup transformations in mid 2013, at which point they tentatively, then all of a sudden, become devoted and divine friends. Bonding over their urge to bring full on glamour to their every day lives, their shared opinions on cake, and their fierce nerd hearts, the two quickly began to look upon one another as fabulous sistersâwho simply hadnât met yet outside the confines of the interwebs. Due to finally meet IRL to share many squishy hugs and swing-skirted spins in fall 2015, theyâre opening up their friendship and their closets to you in this shared blog post while they eagerly await their meeting.
Amy: Iâve always adored the glamour and style of the 1950s and the elegance of those Old Hollywood screen sirens, an admiration that Sarah shares. It was not at all unusual for us both to yearn for 50s style dresses we spotted in movies set in that era, wanting the shelf busts, the full circle skirts, the juxtaposition of both structure and fullness. But it almost never occurred to either of us that we could ever adopt that style in real life in our modern world. Given that our admiration for the decade revolved most intensely around the clothes, it may come as a surprise to learn that our pinup journeys both began with our hair, almost by accident.
Sarah and I had both done some damage to our hair in recent years: Sarah with extended use of straighteners, and myself with a one off use of wet-2-straight straigheners that damaged my hair so fully that my natural curl was unable to form from then on out, my âlionâs maneâ as I called it, a full head of wild ringlets, instead hanging limp, lank and stringy. Unbeknownst to one another, strangers on different continents, we both did a little research into non-heat methods of setting our hair and found pincurls.
Personally I can say it took me a while to get the knack of pincurls, and longer still to find a setting lotion that worked best for me, but I kept practicing and began to look into retro hairstyles more and more. I attempted victory rolls, as did Sarah, but while Sarah is much better at them than I we both find we tend to get one perfect pert roll and one sad limp roll that wonât stay up in place even with a dozen hair grips. Pincurls are our true loves, and weâre both fine with that.
With our pincurled tresses continuing to improve, we next changed our makeup because a wonderful retro hair do on a fully modern canvas can look a bit out of place. Learning the art of winged liner was a scary next step, but over time our flicks became measured and we learned which wing angles were flattering on us and which were not. For me, red lipstick still seemed too dramatic a statement, almost as though that alone declared âYes, I am very fancy, I cannot deny it!â So it was with an almost pinned-up face that we each updated our wardrobesâwith a throwback.
I began with circle skirts, cheap, thin ones created by dancewear companies, a step above costume circle skirts but far below the PUG beauties I sport today. I paired them with ânormalâ tops I found on the high street, and for a long time my number one concern was in finding my clothing inside a narrow budget because I couldnât commit to the more expensive repro wares that I was worried I would buy and then cast aside if the pinup look didnât stick. But it did. I should have known it would. Because along every step of my journey, through the hair to the makeup, and finally to the clothes, my confidence began to grow. I eventually added in that red lipstick, and when I made my first purchase from Pinup Girl Clothingâthat was it. That was the moment I became a pinup. Not because Iâd splurged on a reproduction brand name skirt for the first time, but because the feeling it gave me was the feeling I was searching  forâthe sensation that I had found my style, my niche, the look that made me feel polished and elegant and glamorous whether I dressed it up or down. I stopped making small concessions to certain situations by tampering down my style, I wore the red lipstick whenever I wanted to, even when it was over the top, even when it meant I drew a dozen pairs of eyes as I walked down the supermarket aisle in full retro glamour while surrounded by people in jeans and sweats and yoga pants. I was finally transformed, my style metamorphosis complete. I had arrived as the leading lady in my own life.
Sarah: Well lo and behold, mine and Amyâs stories are practically the same yet again, much like many other things about us. Both of us lost weight and gained confidence, and nothing gave us more confidence than dressing pinup. But hereâs the thing: I donât really think it was the physical change of style that made the difference, not completely anywayâI think it was because of what was going on in our heads and our hearts. We finally had the courage to dress the way we wanted to dress, and were worlds happier because of it. Think of it as exercise for the soul. The end product you want is beautiful but getting there is difficult. Yes the process requires practise, research, money, and enduring a lot of attention. But isnât doing whatâs right by you the most important thing?
At the beginning the stares made us both uncomfortable and maybe even a little embarrassed at times. I couldnât help but wonder if maybe my hair reminded people of their grandmaâs but not in a good way, or perhaps if I had lipstick on my teeth, or something else equally dreadful. But as we continued on our paths to pinup we learned to no longer feel judged and self conscious. Instead we learned to take the stares and whispers to mean maybe, just maybe, people liked what they saw, but even if they didnât it didnât matter, because being different isnât something to be ashamed of. The moment you stop caring about how people perceive you is the same exact moment you learn that your own opinion is the one that matters the most. So if a swing dress and petticoat make you feel like the goddess you are then by all means wear it to pick up your groceries; if a wiggle dress makes you feel unstoppable then stop waiting for âthe right occasionâ and just wear it!
Society is so incredibly rule-centric, it dictates everything from what we should eat, to what we should weigh, what we should earn, and how many magazines have you seen with taglines like âHow To Dress For Your Shapeâ or âWhat Hair Color Is Right For Your Skintoneâ? Hundreds, if not thousands. Well guess what? I donât care about those rules and neither should you. Youâd never let a stranger come into your home and tell you how to live, so why should you let media, peers, or anyone else have a say in your life? Because thatâs the thing, itâs âyoursâ and no one elseâs. Life is too short and there are too few âappropriateâ occasions to dress the way you want to dress. One of my favorite things Queen Dita has ever said is when people would snarkily ask her what she was dressed up for, sheâd respond with a simple statement that encapsulates everything I feel on this matter, âIâm dressed up for lifeâ. So the next time you feel judged or insecure about your style choices just ask yourself What Would Dita Do? That is mine and Amyâs new mantra in life as pinups, and we feel itâs opened us up to endless joys, both big and small.
I swear youâll be a much happier person when you start living your life for you. The pincurls and pearls make me feel like the me I always wanted to be, I look forward to getting ready for the day, Iâve reverted back to the joy I felt as a child playing dress up! And I have made some of the greatest friends of my life because of it, Amy is undoubtedly my soul sister and it genuinely upsets me to think about a life without pinup in it, because if I hadnât found pinup I wouldnât have found Amy, I wouldnât have found my old child like happiness, and I wouldnât have found my true self. The pinup style is so much more than the pretty dresses and glitzy jewels, itâs inner beauty shining through to the outside, itâs the boldness to not care about standing out, and itâs a community of women who love and support each other.
If youâve been entertaining the idea of joining the âPinup Worldâ consider this your formal (we like things to be fancy after all) invitation.
We hope youâve enjoyed learning a little about how we become the little pinups we are, and weâd love to hear about you. Let us know in the comments about you and your pinup journey, whether it be beginning, in full flow or complete. We so look forward to hearing from all of you lovelies â¤
The Brenda $122 I actually own this dress in the red colorway and the skirt on this dress is nothing short of heavenly, so to wear it in navy paired with some pearls would make the perfectly timeless and highly elegant prom look.
The Two Heartz Dress $158 Hot cha cha! This dress definitely makes a statement and the statement is pure sass! I love this dress so much I’m tempted to make a grown ups only prom!
The Nataya $224 Positively Flaptastic! Wearing this 1920’s style beauty with some t-strap heels, a dramatic smokey eye, and a faux bob is one of the best ways to stand out from the crowd if you ask me.
The First Date Dress $102 This dress is beyond sweet but never childish! I’d love to see this dress paired with a fabulous poodle do!
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