The other day I was made painfully aware of something, on the one rare day that I decide to leave the house sans makeup and socially acceptable clothes, is when all the cute men in the world decide to go where I am. For instance my average joe cashier has suddenly been replaced by a dead ringer for Michael Buble, the coffee guy is now some new rock star looking beauty, and all of the men where I am shopping look like they stepped out of a Calvin Klein ad. And as if looking like some stressed out college student in front of a crowd of should-be-male-models wasn’t enough, that is also the day every woman decides she is a stepford wife and looks amazing! So there I am sticking out like a sore thumb. In my workout clothes, a sorry excuse for a ponytail, and zero makeup, wishing that I had put a little more effort into how I look.
How the guys look
How the other women look
and then there is me *sigh*
My confidence was taking a real beating, until I noticed something, the guys noticed me. At first I thought they couldn’t believe how hideous I looked, but I realized there were smiling and checking me out! Seriously what the heck? I was completely dumbfounded, turns out looking relaxed makes people feel relaxed around you, and it makes you way more approachable. Now I am not saying turn into some unkempt slob, but you can relax. Natural beauty is rare, and rarity is beautiful. So be confident in who you are whether your dressed to kill or dressed for a nap haha. I hope you all enjoyed this post. And let me know if anyone of you have had similar stories! And as always Happy Wednesday!
6 thoughts on “Today I Met The Boy I’m Gonna Marry!”
You are spot on sweetheart! You will find through the years that just being yourself whether decked out or in sweats is the key to attracting men as well as just friends of either sex or cross dressers or you know, whoever you run across.
Happy Wednesday back!
Thank you for stopping by my blog and leaving such a nice comment!
I always say, ‘if they don’t like me in my sweatpants, then they don’t deserve me in my prom gown’! I’m certain this post applies to 99.9% of the human population too, which is quite comforting! ;o)
That’s a great saying! Thanks
Oh pshaw, it just feels that way! Tell ’em to step off!! 🙂